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we are devoted to preserving the bond between mothers and daughters. Through coaching, education, storytelling and shared experiences, we've birthed a community of women learning how to find our way back to one another with compassion and emotional safety.

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This didn't start with you. But it can change with you.

You don't need to be perfect to repair. You need to be emotionally safe.

Most of us were never shown what a healthy mother-daughter relationship actually looks like. We were told it's complicated, or that you should be best friends, and very little in between. So when it hurts, or feels distant, or keeps ending in the same conversation, it's easy to believe this is simply how it is.

It isn't. The patterns between a mother and a daughter are passed down, and they can be understood and changed. You don't have to wait for her to go first. Repair begins with how it feels to be near you, and that is something you can start building today.

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Hilary Mae

Hilary is a Mother-Daughter Relationship Specialist and the founder of The Mother-Daughter Company. She was hired to coach a mother and daughter on a popular Hulu reality series, taught the first course on the mother-daughter relationship at the Psychotherapy Networker Symposium, and more than 12,000 women have joined her programs, resources and coaching.

She holds both sides of this relationship with the same care, because she knows it from both sides herself, as a daughter and as a mother.

In their words

What becomes possible.

I can now experience more joy in my own life. The joy's come back to me.
Carolyn · Becoming member
I sent the letter to her and literally minutes later she replied. Unheard of! I am feeling so happy and peaceful today.
A mother, after sending her letter
I do get so much out of the calls with everyone. It is truly such a special group of women, and you do such a terrific job of leading these calls and guiding everyone.
Karen · Becoming member
I feel ready to lead this repair. We have both been walking on eggshells around each other for 20 years. A shift has definitely occurred within me.
A mother, after 20 years of distance
Stop wondering what you are doing wrong. Your relationship with your daughter can be repaired. It happened for me and it can happen for you too!
A mother, after coaching with Hilary
I can't change the past, but my goodness, I can change the future. For the first time in a long time, I feel hope.
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