Opening hearts and minds for future generations of daughters.
AT HILARY MAE CO., OUR VISION IS TO CHANGE THE WORLD.
We believe we all have the power to rewrite our own story. We believe in a world where girls know and embrace their true selves. Without question. We believe in a world where mothers reject the pressure to be and do it all. We believe in a world where daughters feel heard and accepted for being true to themselves. We wholly support female empowerment, freedom and inclusivity. We are empaths, listeners and doers. We hold hope, heal hearts and change lives.
Let’s co-create your most beautiful legacy that gifts future generations of daughters the power to be seen and heard.
Working with some of the most driven and successful women on the planet, my clients don't just settle for OK.
They want AWESOME.
They want FULFILLING.
They want AMAZING when it comes to their mother and daughter.
I specialize in helping women bring love and joy to the forefront to become an unstoppable mother-daughter team moving through life on their terms. We heal the past and they are led to co-create their future relationship in just three months.
THIS IS WHERE WOMEN’S STORIES ARE TOLD.
As a therapist for 15 years, I’ve heard many stories. Ones that would make you laugh, cry and remind you of the tenderness in life. I honor the words that are spoken in my presence, they’re often stories shared for the very first time. I do not take this honor lightly and lovingly unleash these buried stories within women in my presence.
My clients learn to use their voices to create meaningful transformations and disrupt the status quo in their relationships. They’re the brave ones. The change makers. The ones who will let their guard down to heal their hearts.
If you are absolutely ready to have a more aligned, fulfilling and loving relationship with your mother or daughter, you are in the right place. No shame. No blame. It’s all love.
A note from Hilary
A question I’m often asked is: why mothers and daughters? Why not mothers and sons, or fathers and daughters?
My answer is simple: because when you change the mother–daughter relationship, you change the emotional DNA of an entire family.
My life’s work is amplifying the voices of women - inviting them to be seen and heard, while pushing back against the cultural marginalization that tells us to quiet down, smooth things over or carry the emotional weight for everyone else.
When women learn to know themselves at the deepest level and to feel what it’s like to be truly nurtured - they don’t just repair their relationships. They create generational power for every daughter who comes after.
I grew up watching my mother run a gourmet cooking school out of our stone cottage on a hill, with a creek rolling through the backyard. It was an idyllic setting but what imprinted on me wasn’t just the beauty.
It was the care.
Each season, her students would leave behind their daily responsibilities and step into her kitchen. They were greeted with a lovingly set table, a nourishing meal and the warmth of being cared for instead of caring for everyone else.
That experience taught me two things that still guide my work today:
Women deserve spaces where they feel truly held.
The smallest details of how we show up for each other matter more than we realize.
My mother paved the way for me to become a lifelong entrepreneur, a feminist and a nurturer - with a deep passion for the intricacies of female relationships. Today, whether I’m teaching a framework, hosting a retreat or guiding a coaching session, my goal is the same:
To help women feel seen, heard and cared for and to show them the power they already carry to transform their relationships and their legacies.
My beautiful and hilarious client, Sydney, shares about her experience in sessions with her mother to heal their relationship that had been strained for almost a decade, starting during the teen years:
“This was an incredible experience for me. It was so easy to talk to you and it was nice to feel so heard - to the point where you often remembered small things I entirely forgot I said, but that were important to me to address! You created a very safe environment for my mom and I to work our issues out, and we reflect on it often. Our relationship has grown to a place of ease and comfortability that I honestly never thought it could. We handle each other’s feelings with a lot of grace, and when we slip up we always remember to use the listening exercise we learned from you. The past few months have been like night and day from the last decade or so. We just had such a wonderful holiday season together and I found myself going out of my way to spend more time with her and at her house than I ever have before, which felt really good for both of us ❤️. Thank you so much again, don't think we'll ever be able to thank you enough!”
