Imagine being able to easily
connect with your daughter…
An exclusive program designed for busy moms who crave calm + deep connections with their girls.
Do you struggle most days to feel confident when mothering your pre-teen or teen daughter and sometimes totally ineffective?
Are you exhausted by what feels like you and your daughter locked in a never-ending conflict?
Determined to do things differently than your mother, by truly showing up for your daughter in the ways she NEEDS most while still protecting your own energy and needs?
Do you have trouble getting your daughter to open up to you and share what’s really on her mind?
Are you worried how your daughter will handle these stressful teen years and the world she’s growing up in, wondering if she’s ready to handle the pressure and expectations while staying true to herself?
It doesn’t have to be this way
What if instead you…
FELT CONFIDENT in your mothering approach by learning how to have meaningful conversations and build an unshakable lifelong bond.
CONNECTED WITH YOUR DAUGHTER as a result of your focused energy on a specific, proven mother-daughter relationship approach. And now are regularly, authentically talking with your daughter, in fact she’s even beginning to come to you herself to check-in.
KNEW WHAT TO DO IN COMPLEX SITUATIONS, when she comes to you with issues around friendships, sex, technology, drinking, anxiety or stress when you feel like she’s shut you out.
TRUST YOURSELF, your instincts, boundaries, and don’t get stuck in the same old fights with your daughter, because you’ve upped your mothering strategies and communication skills.
FELT CALM enough so that when your daughter is overwhelmed by her emotions, you still have a great day because you don’t take her emotions personally.
Introducing the Hold On to Your Daughter course
A self study course to transform your mother-daughter relationship and strengthen your bond even if you feel it’s too late.
Hurry! This Special Offer Expires on Monday at 9pm EST!
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Hurry! This Special Offer Expires on Monday at 9pm EST! 〰️
Inside you’ll find:
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Works Around Your Schedule
You’re busy so this course was created for you to listen (and re-listen) exactly when you need it. Listen in the car, on the go or right after a situation with your daughter. Come back as often as you need to to get grounded in your loving, confident approach.
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Protect Your Bond
You may interpret her eye rolls as her not wanting to connect with you, but what I’ve learned from teen girls is they need you to do it in a different way and they don’t know how to ask. You no longer have to lose your girl when she becomes a pre-teen or teen girl, you just adopt a new approach.
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Mothering Confidence
When mothers know themselves they are grounded in their truth and raise girls who feel loved. Get in touch with your instincts and boundaries to stop getting stuck in the same old fights with your daughter, because you’ve worked through your own past and developed new patterns you are proud to pass down to your daughters.
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Tried & True Connection Strategies
In order to connect with our daughters we need to meet them where they are. You’ll learn what she really needs from you as you become an expert listener and begin to speak the same language.
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What's waiting for you?
👉🏽 Immediate access to six modules and 24 lessons that you are guided through to learn and apply with your daughter.
👉🏽 Audio/video lessons and downloadable workbooks included in each module.
👉🏽 Pop up coaching calls with Hilary to ask questions about your relationship.
👉🏽 Lifetime access so you can go back to it over and over as you need a refresher or you enter a new stage.
👉🏽 Listen on the go and come back as you need to get grounded in your new confident approach with your daughter.
“Thank you so much for everything. I appreciate you choosing this life's work. It's been just wonderful working together."
- NR
“I’ve been able to analyze a lot of her behaviors with your help. Connecting with her and responding rather than my old reacting has really, really helped. Thank you genuinely for all your support. It’s been an amazing help to us.”
- KATIE
“I've learned that there has to be a level of self-preservation in this wifing and mothering thing. We give so much to everyone and if you don't establish boundaries it's going to go down a bad path."
- MARIE
"If only we had Hilary whispering in our ears during our interactions with our girls"
- VALERIE
"I got this insight from you, Hilary Truong, thank you. I learned so much and it has even improved my relationship with my own mother."
- CHARICE
“I’ve been able to analyze a lot of her behaviors with your help. Connecting with her and responding rather than my old reacting has really, really helped. Thank you genuinely for all your support. It’s been an amazing help to us.”
- KATIE
"We had a little snafu on our drive to school less than an hour before I heard your presentation…She was telling me about her new coach and how she doesn’t like it when he teaches her a new style because it’s confusing. I commented how lucky she is to have two coaches - her mood sunk- she became grouchy and quiet for the last few minutes of our ride, which affected both of us and I didn’t even see it. We said goodbye and I felt horrible (and to be honest, angry)…I texted her “I’m sorry - when you shared with me about your coach, I should’ve just listened… I can see how that would be confusing.” She responded immediately ;) Then I explained- she can ultimately decide what’s right for her. Bingo. She responded happily- feeling heard and we connected for the rest of the day. I attribute her being so cuddly and happy to your sage advice given earlier that morning. So thank you. A huge, heartfelt thank you, Hilary."
- LISA
I’m Hilary, a former therapist for teen girls, now I teach mothers my skills to keep their daughters close.
Let’s face it, the mother-daughter relationship is often misunderstood. I’ve heard it described too many times as ‘special yet complicated’. After working as a therapist for teen girls for nearly fifteen years, I saw girl after girl come into my office and feel alone in the world, even while her well intentioned mother sat right outside on my waiting room couch. This was the moment I knew we needed to stop accepting disconnection between mothers and daughters by transferring my skills to mothers.
Everything I teach I implement in my mothering and I see it not only works for my clients but with my daughter, too. I know not everyone has the benefit of being a trained child and family therapist before entering motherhood, I’ve had time to master these skills. I would love to teach you, too, wherever you are in your mothering journey.
Hurry! This Special Offer Expires on Monday at 9pm EST!
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Hurry! This Special Offer Expires on Monday at 9pm EST! 〰️
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You’ll understand where your daughter is developmentally, what is typical behavior for her age and what she needs from you right now. Your understanding of her pre-teen and teen brain is key. This helps you know what is typical and important to her at each age and how you can best support her growth.
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You will understand why mothers and daughters struggle, how we’ve been set up for conflict and exactly what we need from each other to keep our bond strong. You will see your mothering approach and how you’re missing with your daughter. You will have created a path for change and be clear on how you want to show up for your daughter in a way that protects her mental health and your relationship.
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You will be practicing your new calm and confident approach to your daughter. You’ll be watching your daughter respond differently as a result of your efforts. You’ll know what to say, how to respond to her big feelings and be enjoying more peace in your intercations.
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You will no longer be sacrificing yourself in favor of everyone else’s needs. You will have more connection points and loving moments with your daughter throughout the day. With your new invitations, listening skills and attuned boundaries, your daughter will be feeling more heard and loved by you. You will have a new outlook on your relationship and feel confident as you navigate future stages of your relationship.
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Summer Special until August 7, 2023 at 9pm EST
Questions?
Q: My daughter is not a teenager, is this right for me?
Yes! If your daughter is between ages 7-25, you will immediately feel supported by the content within this course. It was created for mothers who want to prevent a breakdown in their relationship during the teen years, for mothers in the thick of adolescence and for mothers who are on the other side but want to get the relationship right before their daughter is truly off on her own. There are sections of the course dedicated to the teen years as well as the adult years of your relationship.
Q: I’m busy juggling all the things and I don’t have an abundance of time, how much time do I need to dedicate to the course?
I totally get it, you want answers and you want them fast. There are six modules with 3-6 lessons inside each. It will take you about an hour to get through a module + processing what comes up for you through the worksheets, journal prompts and exercises to try with your daughter. Students have completed one module at a time or gone lesson by lesson, the beauty is you get to choose your pace and come back to it over and over. In other words you choose how much time you spend on the course at any time.
Q: Why bother learning about the mother-daughter relationship? Doesn't this get better when she's an adult?
Nope! Here’s the thing about our daughters. They need us. Always. Whether they admit it or not. Whether they seek us out or not. They don't naturally have the right words to express what they need, when they need it unless we create a way for them to do that. You have to learn how to show up for her, when to do it, and then how to be there for her when she does.
I’ve seen so many moms not listen to their daughters, dismiss her needs as silly, temporary or off-base and instead cross their fingers that their daughter will come back to them with faith, time, and pixie dust. Sorry, but this isn’t Neverland, you are moving through the ups and downs of real life together. Complete the program, equip yourself with the knowledge and tools you need to grow your confidence and get in right relationship with your daughter!
Q: I’ve learned about parenting teens/girls before and the change didn't stick for long. This must not work for everyone, right?
