Stop sending your daughter to therapy to fix your relationship

Updated: Dec 12, 2021

If my work with mothers and daughters has taught me anything, it's that therapy doesn't work for their relationship.

I hear this from mothers and daughters who have found me after years of therapy together and separately.

I used to hear this from teen girls and their mothers who found me after working with a therapist for years and feeling like they were just spinning their wheels.

They needed more "tools" and a therapist didn't give them that.

But what they really wanted was a change. To feel better, different. Released.

They needed someone who knew WHY they had a breakdown and knew HOW to fix it.

I know this because I was a therapist doing this work without the answers.

And other therapists don't have the answers.

I treated mothers and daughters just like any other relationship in the family because I didn't know there were specific reasons why mothers and daughters struggled.

I didn't know mothers aren't to blame for everything that goes wrong with daughters, but that in fact, they can only do as well as the mothers that came before them.

Unless they are rebels.

As a rebel daughter myself, I knew there was a better way.

It became my mission to finally fix relationship breakdowns for mothers and daughters.

I turned to the research. Carol Gilligan, Elizabeth Debold, Rosjke Hasseldine, Christiane Northrup, Marianne Wilson and Paula Caplan. The pioneering women who came before me, studied and wrote how females experience our world through their mother-daughter relationship.

When I actually saw what’s between mothers and daughters (which isn’t taught to therapists in school by the way), I realized that if I stayed in my profession, I would never be able to fix their breakdown.

I couldn't change the reality for mothers and daughters the way the world needs.

So I gave up my mastery, my security, my profession so I could come and FIX IT FOR YOU.

I fix it through my ever evolving and potent healing work that changes reality for mothers and daughters.

There are very real reasons why we struggle and it has nothing to do with us.

No blame or shame here.

Only answers, insight and a clear path forward.

And it's not as a therapist.

It's through honesty, honing in on the problem, advice, sharing what works and doesn't work for mothers and daughters and telling them exactly what they need to do.

I’ll be the (former) therapist to raise my hand and say people are going to therapy and it’s not working for mothers and daughters.

Mothers feel massive blame for the actions they took, when they were most likely doing the best they could at the time.

Daughters feel massive shame for pointing out their mother's shortcomings and demanding to be heard and seen.

The same old, same old.

But nobody knows what else to do.

As a former therapist for 15 years, I know that if I can get my hands on a mother who is an action taker, we can get things solved real fast. Sometimes in only one day.

But the problem with therapy is that we either get symptom relief and stop attending or we stay forever. Years and years of our lives, working on the same relationships and problems.

There is a better, more effective way.

I’ve become increasingly known for helping mothers and daughters who not only can get along but know exactly why they’ve struggled and what they need to do to move forward.

The results of the work I do with my clients has been staggering.

Daughters no longer have to feel broken.

Mothers no longer have to feel blamed.

Because now you know about me.

I’m the solution to sending your daughter to therapy for years and years and getting absolutely no where in your relationship.

I'm the solution to you spending years and years in therapy complaining about your mother and trying to manage the same old stuff.

I create a completely bespoke experience for you to reach your relationship goals.

Whether it's one day or six months, I'm right by your side.

Showing you the way and cheering you on.

My only goal is to absolutely change your life and the way you experience your mother or daughter.

Hop on a call with me if you want to know how to change your situation. I now help mothers or daughters understand and FIX the breakdown quickly and well.

If you are ready to finally change the dynamics in your relationship, it's time to take action.