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Let me ask you this...

What would change for you if you seamlessly connected with your mom/daughter?

No more guilt, pressure, or resentment.

My guess is EVERYTHING.

Here's what I know for sure about what we need in our Mother-Daughter relationship...

When we feel seen, heard and understood we know we are loved. 

And when we feel loved we connect in our relationships on a whole new level.

This is what I have created for you to release the pain in your mother-daughter relationship.

Come along with me.

We are expanding in one beautiful morning.

We are having fun, connecting and healing on a weekend getaway.

We are identifying breakdowns, releasing pain and writing the next chapter in your mother-daughter story with your bespoke guided experience.

No more sitting for exactly 45 minutes on your therapist's couch week after week. 

No more triggers, frustration or suffering in silence. 

No blame. 

Only love. 

Your bespoke plan is built with one simple goal.

Having you in the relationship you desire and feeling all the benefits this brings.

When was the last time a therapist

guaranteed a transformation?

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If your mother-daughter relationship brings up feelings of rejection, judgement or so much conflict that you've been *this* close to throwing in the towel...it's time for a specialized approach. Say goodbye to sitting on opposite ends of your therapist's coach week after week and hello to the most beautiful, healing experiences you've ever had. 

We'll spend just the right amount of time together, with joined hearts and linked arms, nurturing your relationship from beginning to end. The tension subsides and connection grows from the start, then you continue to heal and maintain your new relationship with support by right your side.

 

Our time together is specifically designed for your relationship. To guide you from hurt to understanding and love. And let me tell you, my approach works. I know you're feeling hopeless, maybe even doubtful, but I've witnessed it time and time again. I have story after story of desperate mothers and daughters rebuilding their bond and LOVING their time together.  

 

A comprehensive package of support for you as individual women and a mother-daughter duo to ensure you leave feeling understood and in love with your relationship. No matter where you live, how old you are or other circumstances that make your situation unique. I've seen it all and am ready to guide you with grace and love. 

Last ditch effort to save your relationship?

 

Let this be the one, darling.

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If your mother-daughter relationship brings up feelings of rejection, frustration, judgement or so much pain that you've felt like it will never get better....it's time for a specialized approach.

I will create a beautifully, custom package of support just for you. We can enjoy in-person sessions even if we're on opposite sides of the country, or world for that matter. Your healing experience is completely bespoke, together we choose the length of time and structure and get to work. In as little as ONE day we will having you healing and moving forward with confidence and strength. It's time for you to change the way you exist in this relationship and create a dynamic you are worthy of. 

Ready to heal yourself, even if she isn't?

 

I've got you.

Prefer to dive in and get all of this goodness in total luxury? I got you, darling.

 

My immersive retreats are an experience that invites you to relax, let your guard down and open your heart to the possibility of feeling heard and seen by each other. Allow yourself to be nurtured and cared for in pure luxury.

 

We'll spend a half day or three days together diving into your relationship. I'll get to know your pain and desires to map out all the details together.

Now let's get to planning an experience that will become a new mother-daughter family tradition.

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As mothers and daughters we crave to be seen by each other...

For daughters it's imperative to understand the circumstances under which your mother parented in order to know her heart. When mothers can listen to daughters and truly acknowledge their pain, healing can happen. In our mother-daughter power circle you will hear the struggles of both mother and daughter. This is the safest, most loving and inspiring space to find yourself and make the changes necessary to have a relationship you love. 

It's time for you to say, "She hears me, she sees me and she knows me."

Join women from around the world to

put the pieces of your relationship back together.

 

Three current Power Circles available:

college aged young women, mothers and adult daughters. 

 "YOU WERE A LIFESAVER"

 

"Having you when we went through everything with my daughter...you were a lifesaver and I feel really fortunate to have had you in my life."

- ES

"UNTIL THESE SESSIONS MY DAUGHTER REFUSED TO LISTEN TO ME"​

“Up until these sessions my daughter refused to listen to me at all. She told her father she didn’t want to listen because she didn’t want to feel guilty. But I wasn’t trying to make her feel guilty, I wanted to get her to understand what was wrong. And she’s listening to me now...it's been fabulous."

- LR

"It's been just wonderful"

"Thank you so much for everything. I appreciate you choosing this life's work. It's been just wonderful working together."

- NR

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I’m Hilary, and I'm leading a Mother-Daughter Revolution

I’ve worked with hundreds of mothers and daughters to help them understand their breakdown and heal their pain to create a relationship they truly love.

 

My clients are peacefully spending holidays together, enjoying their grandchildren again, looking forward to their next visit or phone call all while living their lives on their own terms.

I’ve become increasingly known for helping mothers and daughters who not only can get along but know exactly why they’ve struggled and what they need to do to move forward. No more week after week spinning your wheels in the therapy office for years on end.

 

Mothers who thought they had to settle for taking whatever their daughter would give them now decline invitations if it doesn’t work for them, because they know there’s another one around the corner that doesn’t turn their lives upside down. 

 

Daughters who were able to release years of feeling unheard and unloved have been able to put these feelings into words to finally be understood by their mother.

Where it had been hard to connect in their mother-daughter relationship, my clients are making huge shifts that allow them to just be themselves while feeling loved within their relationship.

It doesn’t seem to matter age, location, married, divorced, working, retired, what type of disconnect, my approach works for women who are ready to heal their emotional disconnect.

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ARE YOU READY TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE?

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Imagine what it would feel like to...

  • Heal your pain as  you reunite with your mother-daughter relationship on equal terms.

  • Dive head-first into the loving, supportive mother-daughter relationship you’ve always dreamed of.

  • Have THIS be the year people tell you, “Your connection is so wonderful! I wish I had that with my daughter/mother".

  • Feel the comfort of spending time together doing nothing other than being yourselves (and not having it erupt into a ANOTHER fight).

  • Revel in the freedom of closeness with any past issues of control, judgement and criticism cast out. You can love the fact that she not only accepts your choices but actually celebrates your decisions!

  • No longer feeling pressure to please or placate because your new communication styles fully support your healthy dynamic of two individuals who love and appreciate each other.  

  • Finally feel heard and seen so that you feel honored as individuals and excited about the future of your new relationship!