Your mother-daughter relationship

should feel like home.

REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME YOU HELD YOUR DAUGHTER?

Like me, you probably looked down at her face and imagined all the future moments you would share together. Matching mother-daughter dresses, tea parties, dancing parties in the living room.

You dreamt of teaching her all that you didn’t learn and raise her differently than your mother. You would be the one to get this right.

Then she developed her own little personality and it became harder to connect. Life happened and you navigated the best you could but quickly learned it wasn’t enough for your daughter.

When daughters do not feel heard and understood, they do not feel loved. We all want our daughters to feel loved and they deserve it, too!

Our breakdown comes from what mothers don’t know about how to help their daughter feel seen and heard. Whether you’re 8 or 80 we all want the same = to feel loved.

That is what we do here. Heal hearts. Secure bonds. Celebrate love.

What happens when mothers and daughters have open and honest conversations?

Here’s what happened for past clients: 

  • They gained skills to communicate clearly and effectively when there is difference of opinion or strong emotions present.

  • Mothers release the blame they have felt for years and are finally held with empathy for all they’ve done.

  • They stay engaged in honest and open communication to stop reading between the lines or walking on eggshells.

  • Mothers learn a new way of reaching their daughters that now feels natural and keeps her daughter coming back to her over and over.

  • Daughters felt loved through all the ups and downs because they felt their mother’s unwavering support.

  • Daughters felt free to follow their hearts because they were trusted by their mother and therefore trusted themselves.

  • They felt loved and honored by each other everyday.

 

Conversation Starters Workshop

Learn exactly what your daughter craves from you so you can stay in conversation and relationship for life.

Whether your duaghter is 14 or 34, all she wants from you is to feel heard and understood.

In this 1.5 hour workshop you will learn how to invite her into conversation and keep her there.

What if you…

*Had a plan for when you need to approach your daughter?

*Didn’t feel anxious about the ‘right’ way to respond to your daughter to avoid her shutting down?

*Gained confidence to invite your daughter into conversation in a way that doesn't push her away?

*Knew how to bring up past situations that invited an honest, loving conversation and allowed you to repair any pain?

*Had rehearsed phrases to use in moments when your daughter needs you?

*Got your daughter talking to you more on a regular basis?

This workshop is being recorded live on February 15th at 11am EST. Signing up now gives you a seat in the room + lifetime access to the recording. 

I’m Hilary, lover and advocate of the sacred mother-daughter bond

Let’s face it, the mother-daughter relationship is often misunderstood. I’ve heard it both described too many times as ‘special yet complicated’. After working as a therapist for teen girls for fifteen years, I saw girl after girl come into my office and feel alone in the world. Even with her well intentioned mother sitting right outside on the waiting room couch. This was the moment I knew we needed to stop accepting disconnection between mothers and daughters.

Since then, I’ve had the honor of working with hundreds of mothers and daughters to help them have the best relationship possible. As a former therapist, I transfer my skills to mothers so they are the ones rescuing their girls. I show mothers and adult daughters how to listen to each other’s needs and truly understand each other so they can heal and have the relationship they’ve been craving.

Your intent listener, assuring confidante and knowing guide, I’m ready to give you not only what you need but what you want. We begin with the education, healing and work then we celebrate.

Begin Your Journey

HILARY’S SIGNATURE SERVICES

Ready to repair your relationship? Had enough with the pressure, distance and rejection? Let’s get you back in conversation and relationship with each other. It’s where you both deserve and want to be with each other. How do I know that? Because daughters always want to be loved and accepted by their mother. I approach each relationship uniquely to find the right support for you to heal your hearts. Coaching is perfect for mothers and daughters of all ages and in all stages of their relationship.

You may feel like this is just a phase you’re daughter’s growing through; separating, rejecting your efforts as she finds her way in the world…but here’s the truth: your daughter needs you, no matter her age. But if you're feeling unsure how to help her when she’s struggling, how to guide her in a way that feels supportive and say the ‘right’ things that don’t cause her to shut off from you, it’s time to learn a new approach. In my program, Hold On to Your Daughter, you’ll learn how to be the calm & confident mother your daughter needs.

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